Relationship Therapy and Management
Having problem with your relationship or marriage? Well, you are not alone. Divorce rate is at an all time high and is not getting better. And you wonder why, right? It's not like you don't know what you need to do to maintain a good loving relationship. You know for sure. But somehow, you just can't do it! It's like you always self-sabotage your relationship. Why?
Why your brain makes you do stupid things!
Don't do it. Don't do it!
You already knew that when you did, it would turn out badly.
So what did you do? Yup. That's right. You did it any way. Why?
The good news is that science finally answers why we knowingly make bad decisions, why we behave badly despite our best efforts and why we regularly self-sabotage our own efforts. It's our beliefs.
The brain is designed to help us survive. As such, it develops short cuts to save time when making decisions. For example, living in a large family, you had to constantly choose to yell to be heard and to get your way. And it works.
So, consider these ...
- Why do people who divorce, remarry and then divorce again? Why does history repeat itself?
- People who go to dating services to find their life partner end up either nothing or they repeat the marry-divorce-remarry-divorce pattern?
- Why do people repeatedly end up with the wrong partner in an intimate relationship?
Well, do you see a pattern here? People say they want a relationship but they unknowingly or unconsciously self-sabotage their relationship. Then it begs the question of "do these people really want a relationship"? If they do, why do they do everything possible to self-sabotage their relationship or find the wrong partner?
Ok, in our experience working with our clients, we often find that the client consciously say they want a relationship but when we work with their subconscious mind, the answer turns out to be a firm "NO". Remember, when we try to find a life partner, it is the subconscious mind that is doing the work! If it does not want a relationship, no wonder the self-sabotage behaviour.
This scenario is very common. Actually, too common. Pictorially, it looks like this ...
You consciously want a relationship but your subconscious mind (the 95%) does not want a relationship. No wonder you self-sabotage yourself out of having a good lasting relationship. This is also the reason why history repeats itself. What is in your subconscious mind? Well, it's all the beliefs, values, injunctions that you have acquired since the day you were born! You parent might have inadvertently discouraged you to not have a relationship. How can all these be changed so that you can start to find a good lasting relationship and live happily ever after?
Our Relationship Therapy and Management workshop does exactly that to help you. In the workshop, you will identify whether you want a relationship and other roadblocks that may be sabotaging you in having a good, meaningful and loving relationship and clear all these invisible saboteurs. You will also learn to better manage your emotional relationship with your life partner.
Ok, I am ready to fix my relationship saboteurs and have a lasting and loving relationship!
